Some people say that marriage is between a husband and wife, as long as the couple love each other, mutual tolerance and inclusiveness can operate a home. I would like the naive idea of this is only the unmarried girls, married women in a girl, it is undeniable that must face the hurdle of her mother, mother-in-law and the harmonious degree of ingredients, how high, it was decided this more concentrated, marriage happiness index. But reality can not be ignored is that the two no blood relationship of a woman living together, because two generations between the concept of the existence of differences, leading to such a fact, a good husband, often in such a critical juncture When will back away, or join a battle of the mother-in-law to denounce their own, thus exacerbating the conflict between husband and wife, this time, the importance of a good mother-in-law after marriage, she highlights the importance, will have a new understanding of , a good husband is easy to find a good mother-in-law is hard to find emotion.

Cause when I say that the reason the marriage life girl against, this is what kind of logic, his married life with future husband, rather than with her ​​mother over a lifetime, do not pick her husband also have to first pick a good mother is not? These words are absolutely right, if you want to keep the win in the attitude of, with your true happiness in a marriage into this role of the mother-in-law you must not be underestimated, she can make an impact on your life happy. So, when you are ready to pick a good husband to get the various role of the mother, such as personality, temperament, hobbies, ideas, etc. to be understood by contact with the simple words and deeds to see whether the future mother-in-law with their own friendly to each other, which is necessary. Some girls may think that as long as my husband can understand and love yourself, mother-in-law regardless of what kind of attitude to treat yourself is not a problem. In fact, as the role of the mother, as to love her husband in the face with her ​​mother's role, no one to look at things to tend to her mother, not just the mother and even the heart of the results of Xiaoyi into our country has always been the traditional concept of the husband's position must choose filial putting the situation. In other words, as her mother, her daughter-in-law in front of the performance of how excessive, how strong, but in the eyes of her husband, she was older, she is a mother, she chose the starting point for their own too better, even if the mother's choice with the younger generation out of tune, but well-intentioned husband will be accepted, even though this goodwill appears to be significant between the two generations the concept of separated hydroxylamine, while her husband would his wife take evasive mother's dissatisfaction The attitude of the reason.

If you think this man you love, but the world of men are the same in love, when it can be said you are his, that he can be everything you need, but you an altercation with her ​​mother battle would take such an attitude, choose to escape or some preaching to you, as the younger generation, should the mass of people. When you doubt his love, her husband can move out of the countless types of reason to absolve the mother, although the mother is wrong, but the the Xiaoyi magic spell had to make a man put up a shield for her mother. Whether you asked how old stories of love, the man would not budge on this position once or twice perhaps you wroth spirited wronged full of, but more often, you will truly feel the husband in this battle has always pushed his wife in the forefront of the war, and became an observer, and his behavior will no doubt make you the marriage question, doubt sincere sex and love of the husband where, but there is no more reasons can explain this reason where the mother is always the elders is the most reasonable explanation. This time, you will feel the importance of good and evil mother-in-law from their own marriage.

Perhaps someone will be issued this doubt, whether in the event of an evil mother-in-law, it is necessary to tolerate such censure, to accommodate the evil mother-in-law of gesticulating a topsy-turvy? This suspicion is to meet a good mother-in-law where a key factor in the importance of home, but also her husband seek the good mother-in-law difficult to find reasons for where. An enlightened mother-in-law, she will not be imposed because the couple's lives into her wishes, to drip between the troubled waters of a small husband and wife, but well-meaning and express their views and opinions will not make the daughter-in-law face embarrassment. nor will express their own concept of the small husband and wife relationship nervous. She will always be the side to seek and respect the wishes of the daughter-in-law, and in a tactful way to express her experiences and insights in order to get your recognition and acceptance. For this mother-in-law, son and daughter-in-law couple did not dispute is her greatest wish, even if she saw because people of different times for a variety of different options and different judgment, she will be at the right time express their own confusion, in order to let you know something different views. In such a mother-in-law, daughter-in-law in terms of real happiness.

I remember some time ago, a married nearly a decade girlfriend to tell her Youzhongzhiyan love being her husband is not the most important, the mother is the most important. Completely dominated by her mother learned of her narrative into her marriage, though her ​​husband loved her already, in all respects to accommodate her, but living together with her ​​mother paid for her efforts for the family everything can not always make her mother satisfied and want to get married early birth to a daughter, her mother would let her go to work, children change from milk feeding to think about when the child is still small, hoping to complete the child the best lactation, but see that in the eyes of the mother is exposed, cold stares and hostility, after two months to participate in work, in the following days, in addition to her work home cooking also looked at the child, the mother is always too bad too that does not good, while her husband out of the performance, her mother the older ideas obsolete, as the younger generation let her point, her mind for all our sake. To this day, her mother always to interfere with their own concept of their own choice and her husband. Friends last smile, to find a man who loves you is easy, to find her mother than be prohibitively difficult.

In real life, because her mother to get involved in the life between the small husband and wife, leading to a few examples of the relationship between husband and wife aggravated, during which exposed a substantive issue, the position taken by the mother, you can make couples, harmonious relationship between the degree of how much that is to understand, the presence of a good mother-in-law, in fact, is to marry a wife and a woman truly happy sign, while her husband at this time but it is not heavy!

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